Lineart by pandoras-island on deviantart & design by ovophobia on deviantart
Originally a Micro Kiamara; transferred by KingKeero on deviantart Given to me as a gift from rainbowpanda101 on ChickenSmoothie |
FawnlinName: Fawnlin Neweth
Age: 23 Gender: Male Birthday: May 15th Birthplace: TBD Sexual Orientation: Homosexual (gay) Religious Preference: None Favorite Color: Blue Favorite Animal: Bunny Favorite Season: Spring Favorite Hobby: Cuddling Career: Cubical Desk Job at Nardeth's company |
Fawnlin, despite his' obvious' looks (according to others), never though himself gay. In all truth Fawnlin grew up thinking he was straight. Always trying to get a girl of his dreams, but it never seemed to work. And thus, Fawnlin gave up on dating. Fawnlin is a dedicated worker and is a people pleaser to a fault. Fawnlin likes the little things in life that make him happy, not liking large events to commemorate things he has done. Fawnlin is incredibly shy, and freezes under attention.
As a child Fawnlin was abused and neglected - never knowing why. Upon gaining feelings for another male Fawnlin then began to think that the reason why his parents never treated him right was because they knew he was gay before he even did. With this rational Fawnlin attempts to fight his feelings - but in the end gave into his emotions and true self. Fawnlin is now dating Nardeth - who himself is attempting to come to terms with his sexuality. |
Fawnlin - People Pleaser
"People who endured early-childhood abuse and psychological ne-glect often develop a protective personality subself whose goal is to please other people at all costs. The "Pleaser's" intense, narrow focus is protecting Shamed, Abandoned, and Scared young subselves from the agony of social rejection, scorn, disapproval, criticism, and dislike." Common behavioral clues of an overactive Pleaser include (a) rare-ly confronting or disagreeing with important people; (b) over-apologizing; (c) smiling and joking despite major inner pain, (d) consistently focusing on other people's needs and feelings and neglecting their own (self-aban-donment); and (e) rarely asking for, or accepting, help. Until excessive shame and fear of abandonment are reduced via personal recovery, the Pleaser often influences the host person to choose wounded associates - despite significant relationship strife. |